I will probably never make a DNI list because:
- I like having deep conversations with people, even when they disagree with me.
- I don't think anyone deserves to be universally shunned; I'm generally against the concept of "basic DNI criteria" for this reason.
- Anyone I would put on a DNI due to discomfort either could be handled by setting boundaries other than a hard "do not interact", aren't likely to interact with me anyway, or will ignore my boundaries either way.
This isn't to say you shouldn't have a DNI list, but I am saying I don't need one, and I want others to carefully consider if they really need one, and what they put on it.
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i dont have a dni I just go and block them myself (although, i do say in my straw page that people who repost art and people who are cishet are on thin ice, i mean, i dislike art thieves and most people who repost art do not credit the artist And every cishet i met was a bigot. Literally every one i became friends with ended up being a huge bigot.)
WAY TO CALL ME OUT UUGH! MY LIST IS ALL STUFF FROM PAST FRIENDSHIPS IT TRIGGERS ME TO GET REALLY UPSET AT THEM UGH THERES TEARS SPEWING OUT OF MY EYES. SHUN THESE PEOPLE! SHUN THEM I SAY!
mine was to nazis and zionists for personal reasons. one of my best friends irl was jewish, and he kept getting bullied by people who thought he was a religious extremist when he was a normal person. he recently committed suicide. and my great grandfather survived being a prisoner in holocaust. when i was young (6 years old, he died the next year) he told me a story from that time. i then couldn't sleep at all for a whole month.