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I will probably never make a DNI list because:
- I like having deep conversations with people, even when they disagree with me.
- I don't think anyone deserves to be universally shunned; I'm generally against the concept of "basic DNI criteria" for this reason.
- Anyone I would put on a DNI due to discomfort either could be handled by setting boundaries other than a hard "do not interact", aren't likely to interact with me anyway, or will ignore my boundaries either way.
This isn't to say you shouldn't have a DNI list, but I am saying I don't need one, and I want others to carefully consider if they really need one, and what they put on it.
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I wasn't intending to call anyone specific out, just state my opinion and open things up to discussion.
It's perfectly fair if you need to put that stuff on your DNI because of trauma, I just don't have that problem to the same extent
WAY TO CALL ME OUT UUGH! MY LIST IS ALL STUFF FROM PAST FRIENDSHIPS IT TRIGGERS ME TO GET REALLY UPSET AT THEM UGH THERES TEARS SPEWING OUT OF MY EYES. SHUN THESE PEOPLE! SHUN THEM I SAY!