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I will probably never make a DNI list because:
- I like having deep conversations with people, even when they disagree with me.
- I don't think anyone deserves to be universally shunned; I'm generally against the concept of "basic DNI criteria" for this reason.
- Anyone I would put on a DNI due to discomfort either could be handled by setting boundaries other than a hard "do not interact", aren't likely to interact with me anyway, or will ignore my boundaries either way.
This isn't to say you shouldn't have a DNI list, but I am saying I don't need one, and I want others to carefully consider if they really need one, and what they put on it.
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mine was to nazis and zionists for personal reasons. one of my best friends irl was jewish, and he kept getting bullied by people who thought he was a religious extremist when he was a normal person. he recently committed suicide. and my great grandfather survived being a prisoner in holocaust. when i was young (6 years old, he died the next year) he told me a story from that time. i then couldn't sleep at all for a whole month.