0/🎹 music recommendation (i recommend, but do not require, that you send me one as well!) 1/📺 video recommendation (don't send me recommendations back, i won't have time to watch them) 2/💽 cool open-source software or services (you may specify a type of software/website you are looking for) 3/👽 Star Trek character (one I associate you with, or just random if I don't know you well enough) 4/🖖 Star Trek episode (you may specify a type of episode you are looking for, or ask for a way to get into the series) 5/🔣 Random fact (most likely about one of my interests - fair warning, I use this as an excuse to infodump and it's not always comprehensible)

If you involve yourself regularly with drama or queer community/fandom/social justice discourse, you may interact, but I might not follow back. You are encouraged to talk to me about controversial topics if and only if you are willing to assume good faith if I disagree with you. In return, I will keep an open mind to what you are saying. If you intend to cut me off, harass me, or go after my friends if I'm not convinced of your position, don't bother asking in the first place.

Non-sexual flirting is okay, but ask before making overtly sexual comments. Since I allow followers under 18, it may be best to move those conversations to another venue. Feel free to ask for my contact information on other platforms.

just want to say that if you think I have done something wrong, and you can explain why it is wrong, please feel free to come into my inbox or my DMs and talk about it

it will be uncomfortable for me, and I may disagree with you at least initially, but I hope I've shown that I genuinely strive to be a good person