is there any way to get people to not refer to you as they/them even though your rentries do not say "They/them" and VERY CLEARLY say he/him and it/its.. like. how do you make that mistake? its in your face on what i wanna use, so why not use it
(it frustrates me because when people use they/them, its like theyre referring to me as something im not, my brain associates it as not being related to being a dude therefore it feels like its taking away a part Of me :P)
sorry if this is written like very angrily Just it happens so much when i clearly specify "hey dont use they/them i dont like it", they know my gender and pronouns, but they use they/them anyway
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Say "He/it, no they" I see many people using this and I feel like it could help
the only way i can think is to just correct the person, which i understand gets tiring at a point. it sucks that not everyone reads rentry's or take a few seconds to look at others profiles.
ive had basically the same thing happen to me. i literally have had to put "no they" basically everywhere and have corrected people numerous times. even then people don't listen LOL sadly a lot of people are just really ignorant