is there any way to get people to not refer to you as they/them even though your rentries do not say "They/them" and VERY CLEARLY say he/him and it/its.. like. how do you make that mistake? its in your face on what i wanna use, so why not use it

(it frustrates me because when people use they/them, its like theyre referring to me as something im not, my brain associates it as not being related to being a dude therefore it feels like its taking away a part Of me :P)

sorry if this is written like very angrily Just it happens so much when i clearly specify "hey dont use they/them i dont like it", they know my gender and pronouns, but they use they/them anyway