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fern/elliot ! 1731634184896 *

is there any way to get people to not refer to you as they/them even though your rentries do not say "They/them" and VERY CLEARLY say he/him and it/its.. like. how do you make that mistake? its in your face on what i wanna use, so why not use it

(it frustrates me because when people use they/them, its like theyre referring to me as something im not, my brain associates it as not being related to being a dude therefore it feels like its taking away a part Of me :P)

sorry if this is written like very angrily Just it happens so much when i clearly specify "hey dont use they/them i dont like it", they know my gender and pronouns, but they use they/them anyway

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the only way i can think is to just correct the person, which i understand gets tiring at a point. it sucks that not everyone reads rentry's or take a few seconds to look at others profiles.


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the thing is that these people are on my pinterest, and theyre looking at my rentry pins, which either state no mentions of they/them Or say "no they" as in no they/them, so i think thats pretty clear they didnt forget to look at a rentry

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