literally the only thing this is "proof" of is him making a joke and not knowing you'd be uncomfortable. which could have been easily avoided if you had just communicated the fact. nothing in here justifies calling him a groomer and the fact your friends immediately jumped to that conclusion is concerning as fuck. grooming isn't some word to throw around whenever someone makes you "uncomfy" or makes a joke you didn't like. it's fucking serious and I'm sick of people online throwing around random fucking buzzwords to "cancel" people. good fucking night.