lol it took a REALLY long time to figure out my identity, i mostly never seemed to fit into the common idea of man and woman, and it felt like i was either a mix of both or something completely in-between. to start id say look up labels and test them out on you! imagine yourself in a couple years. what do you look like, and what would you like to dress as?

its good to mention you wont find out your identity overnight(unless by some insane luck you do). it took me years to figure out i was nonbinary, and even longer to accept myself for it. doing the things i said can help, but really you should tap into your inner self, find the words to describe your gender, and look for a label from there. i really hope you can figure it out soon, and im always here to help! <3