Mary Jane! Please tell me how do you appreciate and love yourself? Really, it would be a long journey for me to start loving myself.
Mhm. Loving and appreciating yourself truly is a journey, but it’s one worth taking. For me, self-love is not about grand gestures but a quiet, steady practice of understanding and accepting myself. It begins with small things, like acknowledging my strengths and being kind to myself in moments of failure. I remind myself of Anne Elliot from Persuasion by Jane Austen. She says, “We live at home, quiet, confined, and our feelings prey upon us. You always forget how much a woman suffers, alone, and finding no relief.” But Anne also shows us the power of resilience. She doesn’t let life’s hardships define her value. Her ability to move forward with grace inspires me to face my own challenges while recognizing my worth. Your journey toward self-love is uniquely yours, but know that taking even the smallest step matters. Start by acknowledging your worth. Write down qualities you admire about yourself, or take pride in the things you’ve overcome. Celebrate small victories, even if it’s just showing up for yourself today. Keep in mind that you can always rewrite your story. It’s never too late to begin.