dont care about it but i have to go to grandmas house for it because family is going And its probably gonna be scary i know my grandparents support me for being me and being trans and all but my grandpas daughter is going to be there and she knew (or had at least seen) me like. years... before i was aware i was transgender and had socially transitioned so if she accidentally gets it wrong im going to FREAK OUT!!!!!!! (gender dysphoria is a motherfuckerrrr it sometimes makes me react very bad when misgendered even if its a mistake)