No you aren't at all, I have to say that it's weird that he gets shit for the most mundane things under the guise that narcissist = bad, or that he can't possibly have a life or feelings outside of this diagnosis. Some things that I as a pwbpd get away with my boyfriend will get jumped on for no reason, I guess in the age of narc roleplaying online people just can't handle when there's a real one.