I feel a bit weird interacting with people who have "proship dni", "endogenic system supporters dni", "bi lesbian supporters dni", or the opposites of any of those ("antis dni" or "sysmeds dni"), and especially weird interacting with "if you're neutral on [anything] dni"
Because while I have opinions, they tend to be nuanced and not encapsulated by binary labels like "pro" or "anti". I really hate how the Internet so often destroys all nuance in these usually rather complex topics. So especially considering that not everyone uses these terms the same way, I have no idea where I'd fall on some of these DNIs.
And I don't really want to state my opinions in detail just to see who's still willing to interact, because most of the time I don't care about the majority of these debates, and they are incredibly stressful and frustrating when they come up.
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personally I don't go around with this since I have other things to worry about.
be jolly and don't focus on stuff yk?
the only politics I focus on are US politics and even then I don't talk about that here
Tbf I'm actually a bit nuanced/neutral... But I'm not a huge fan of interacting with the proshipping community as a whole (mostly because that means I'm in contact with people who may or may not promote it). I can tell that there's a lot more to it than just the dark/comships or just unhealthy ship dynamics in general, but I'm not always sure what kind of shipper I'll bump into.
And considering that ships, especially incestuous ones, tend to really affect me negatively, I rather just avoid it. If the ship makes me really uncomfortable then it's just easier for me to not interact with the people who ship it in the first place.
As for everything else mentioned... Yeah well that's somewhat why I'm not being open about certain things online lol. I don't want to make someone uncomfortable because of my identity. Not going to get into it.
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i don't really know how darkships ect turned into proshipping altogether, but I'm assuming for that one they just don't wanna see gross stuff like siblings shipped together. if you don't do that then you're probably fine. at least that's how I see it
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based and i agree. and for example the word proship has lost all meaning, and most people dont even know what it means. i saw someone with "proship dni, and dni if you heavily dislike dead dove bc i post about that often" i hope you can see the hypocrisy there. either way i think we alltogether should drop the words anti and pro and "endo/proship/etc". and as for bi lesbians i dont see the hate, they're just labels to me, but either way i think its way too simplified
I agree with this a lot I find it hard to argue about such nuanced topics especially ones that .. do not really exist offline. And the expectation to be educated on this topic is even harder especially when someone will assume things about your character from whatever stance you'll take. Idk, as someone with DID the endo debate stuff gets to me for example, at a certain point it just feels like ableism to even expect me to care while I'm just trying to survive LOL.
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