Not weird at all, don't worry! I found out I was objectum mainly because I was attached to one of my instruments in a way that might seem "weird" to others, and once I looked into it, I was like "Oh... hrm, that's me!" If you have a profound connection with those objects and/or things, you might be! Again, objectum relationships don't have to be primarily romantic or sexual, and can always be platonic or queerplatonic! My advice is to find a label that works for you, there's plenty under the objectum umbrella if you're looking for the right term for you. This rentry (link) is a great resource for different orientations and such, as well as specific terms for specific objects and more!

Best of luck to you, anon, and I hope you figure it all out!