oh, idk if I worded my dni weird but basically I don't want anti non-he/him gay & non-she/her lesbains interacting. but non-he/him gays are gay men ( or anyone that identifies as gay ) who do not use he/him pronouns, same with non-she/her lesbians. to me pronouns ≠ gender so I find it a little stupid to not like someone who is gay or lesbian but does not use he/him or she/her pronouns, because why does pronouns matter to your sexual orientation? /nay but thank you for asking this ! I didn't mean to confused you anyom