Words of affirmation & quality time, maybe acts of service as well — both mutual. I give you my love in the form of my words & my actions, you give me the same. For unofficial, I will always say “ knowing ”. Knowing someone dear to me, understanding them. Learning about them — even if I forget something, it’s quite… nice to relearn that. It’s just nice, and I think if someone put that kind of effort into me, it would make me happy.