There was an anon on my oomf's retrospring, who I believe is an angry ex or something? they has some form of relationship as far as im aware, and was harassing them about sensitive topics such as incest, rape, transphobia, racism, etc. I told my oomf I would mute them to just avoid their anon due to them beginning to trigger my anxiety, but no hard feelings to my oomf, and the anon proceeded to start harassing ME. I turned off my anons after involuntarily lashing out and saying something rude and insensitive, which made a beloved oomf block me (it was cleared up on retrospring and I apologized), but turned them back on for my good anons.