almost just throw it away. Because yes, you can still only be able to appreciate him sexually or romantically and aknowledge his actual character traits and story at the same exact time. With romantic things he will probably be very distant and worried. He lost his daughter, his family. He doesn't want to lose anyone again, he closes himself off. People should add that to their thoughts because he will not do any of these absolutely insane impulsive things in a romantic sense with someone. Not-