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Do you like identity changing? Like, giving a hypnotized sub a new name, and even changing their looks and/or species as they become your drone?
in theory, yes! lemme rewrite everything from your desires to your species. in practice though, i find identity play difficult outside of some playful stuff (turning friends into kobolds, etc). it feels too close to saying "i'd prefer you like this" to someone i care about, and i don't like that, i'm trans so it feels slightly too close to the nerve. on the occasion i'm subbing, it's straight up dysphoric and an immediate "NOPE". so yeah, it's kinda hard to tow the line on!
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Yeah, I've had a similar thing with TF-happy people. I appreciate their kink, but at the same time, I always have this sense of "If I have to change you to like you, then that's kinda fucked up." If someone tells me what they would like to be, I'm happy to play it out as something more 'dub-con' in a way, but for me, it's very much a sense of "I'm not going to change you to fit my ideals, because then you're not you."