pronouns dont always equal gender! in my case, i am a girl (albeit a very genderqueer one) who simply prefers he/him lesbian can include nmlnm people (of course, if someone isnt comfortable using a gendered term like it they dont have to) theres lots of nonbinary and transmasc lesbians around, and have been for ages. simply put, a lesbian is just someone who is not a man nor attracted to men