i'm huge on gift giving!!! i love buying things for my partners and friends as that's how i really show i care about them :D i'm not too big on any others as words can be hard a lot of the time, touch can sometimes be awkward, and there are sometimes days where i don't want to be around anyone, but gift giving for me is always fun for me and whoever i'm giving a gift to!
that's hard... probably either physical touch or gift-giving. I like giving people things. Also, I suppose the whole translating poems thing is relevant too, since I started doing that because I wanted my North American partner to be able to understand all the love poems I wanted to send them. Would that classify as gift-giving? Yes, perhaps.
Learning about the people I cherish; their odd quirks & ecletric interests, their different smiles & micro expressions, how they like their coffee, etc. If to be loved is to be understood, then I will familiarize myself with every crevice of their soul, until I can recognize them by a breath.
sharing my interests or insulting/being mean (playfully) probably? I have a hard time being empathetic or showing real love, and I'm pretty much romance repulsed so this stuff is always platonic affection. If I'm dumping my interests on you and telling you facts and calling you stuff like stinker or dweeb it's probably because I'm able to come out of my shell and be a stupid little brainrot thing towards you
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Quality time until someone assumes I like them because they're less bothersome to be with. I was told I'm unapproachable and cold so being with me "feels special." I don't know how to trust her words when she loves teasing as a hobby. My love language is a flimsy excuse for affection. I don't know how anyone has any patience for it and maybe that's the point.
gift giving and physical touch!!
drawing , painting or making handmade gifts ! i love gifting people what i have personally made for them with a little bit of words of affirmation (๑-﹏-)
Uhh, probably acts of service? Gifting snacks I bought too. Anything else, I kinda suck at but I'll try hugs if necessary (I just don't have a lot of ppl around me who need hugs, so I forget how to hug).
i show love by giving gifts, spending time, and words of affirmation. however both of the latter j consider gift giving since it's something you give to someone that they like :D and i recieve love by people talking to me :)
all of them _
touch :3
Words of affirmation, touch, mostly giving gifts
i express my love (platonic or otherwise) with acts of service & quality time, & i like it when other people give me words of affirmation & spend time with me :-)
Words of affirmation & quality time, maybe acts of service as well — both mutual. ‘I give you my love in the form of my words & my actions, you give me the same.’
gift giving and words of affirmation I think
physical touch and gift giving ♡
I Am aroace (aro spectrum ace but i dont like to explain my several labels every time ...... just know i am ace and lithromantic) and when i think of love language i think of the romantic type but i do like and selfship with fictional charaxters so thats what ill go with, its usually that i say that i hate them or that im going to throw somethin glike a rock or tomatoes at them or that i just straight up want them dead (cute and romantic i know) but then theres the complete opposite: Calling them a lil guy or a scrunkly (no matter if these comments make any sense to the character at all) i wouldve answered with something about platonic love language towards actual people but i only thought of times wheere it was meant romantically ....... Sorry
gift giving !!
Though I'm kinda all of them I think Words of affirmation Is what I am the most. I love giving consent reassurance and I especially need it because I'm super insecure about myself and I think no one wants to stay with me for such long period of time 😭 abandonment issues at it's finest 😛
I like to hug people and even hold hands with close friends, but i don't do it because they will call me a lesbian weirdo, only with family.. Sometimes. Or even my bestie but i don't see her irl much often