Listen, I understand that you guys had some miscommunication between you two but that's not grooming. This is a classic "situate-in-dms" situation. You felt uncomfortable (Which I have seen additional screenshot proof expanding on those conversations you screenshotted and left out your bits of it) and you didn't say in any way that you were uncomfortable. Hinting does not count. Communication is VERY important and I understand that more than anything, that is not grooming