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I hope you don't mind if I add onto the conversation, I don't think they're lying but I do believe the adults who convinced them it's grooming were lying. I sympathize with the victim about the fact that they had an uncomfortable experience. But that is something that needs to be worked out with basic communication and that's okay they didn't know that. I fully blame the adults who (unintentionally or not) lied to the victim on what grooming really is
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the adults who GASLIT THE MINOR into believing what i said (when the adults weren't even part of the convo) wasnt jokes?? like u werent there buddy and she played along w them. howww am i supposed to know ur uncomfortable if u dont establish boundaries... sigh
I do not blame the minor at all and I do think the fault lies within the friends that misunderstood the whole conversation and situation. I think I'd be better if both the people that are involved talked in private without external pressure.
true, your right.. It just rlly triggers me hearing abt it for like the 5th time, I'm friends with the victim and I don't want to see anyone Im friends with being called a liar or anything like that...