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You're not bugging me at all! + I know my limits, I'll disengage if anything is triggering for me :)
Mm. I'm interested in you lack of interest. Do you feel like you have no interest in eating? That could point to something more akin to depression or a depressive episode. The thing is that lack of interest caused by said apathy can fuel disordered thoughts towards food. Like "oh, I haven't been wanting to eat lately. I'll take advantage of that and not eat at all." Often, people with EDs who get sick and/or lose their appetite/interest are triggered into a relapse by said lack of appetite. They see it as something to exploit. They don't feel an urge to eat food, they aren't interested in eating it; so, instead of forcing something down or having something small and high-calorie because they know they biologically need to eat to stay healthy, they take it as a benefit. They take it as that they don't need to fight against their need/interest in eating in order to restrict food intake, because they don't have it! Do you think that could be happening to you? That you feel generally apathetic towards food — which is bad, but you know that you need to eat something regardless — but that you're exploiting that lack of interest to eat less and less?
Did this make sense? hahdhs i kind of explained it poorly... It could be a general apathy towards things, in which case please check your mood regularly and see if you're experiencing noticeable anhedonia. But that can spiral into an ED, that's what I'm trying to say. Especially with those thoughts and behavior patterns of yours!
When the world needed them the most, they appeared. I'm sorry for bugging you on this, and I hope nothing I'm saying is triggering problems for you. I feel like there's a few more details I should disclose. As you know, I'm part of a system. I severely doubt that these thoughts are originating from the innerworld, though, as it's been almost completely cut off and I still don't know why. In simple terms, I believe the thoughts are coming from me me and not one of the other mes. Also, I'm actually a boredom eater. I will snack because I need to chew on something, and I'd rather chew on food than chew pencils until they break apart in my mouth and keep going like I did as a little kid. But I haven't really done that in a while, which is good. In addition, I have a weird appetite thing going on that ties in to what you said. I can be hungry and then take a few bites and hit a wall. What I don't ever admit is that I'm still hungry. It's just that, for some reason, I can't make myself keep eating. Again, I have no idea why. I just had breakfast, which felt very perfunctory considering it was pão de sal (salt bread idk what it's called in english) with bananas and I love that? Pão de sal with bananas is one of my favorite breakfast meals but I found no interest in it One last thing, I have considered the possibility that I have a problem with people watching me eat and commenting on what I eat. Not sure why, though, as I've never really had anyone food shame me to cause such a feeling.