i do think you're right abt the jin thing (see here!) and yeah you're definitely right that nj's not perfect lol!! like when i said if anything he's too fond of a serious conversation i meant it - i do think there's such a thing as like, too much talking and over-examining everything and i could see nj being prone to that. he's also petty and ambitious and he holds grudges and he really shows when he's annoyed! he's so special and wonderful, but i could also see him being difficult to have a relationship with, which is something i'm equally fond of about him tbh! like he's kinda dramatic and i'm so obsessed with that about him. what a guy!!!!

i'm sorry if i or anyone else came off defensive over your messages when you were just trying to be funny! it can be hard to interpret tone, and there have been a lot of spurious rumors flying around from solos in the past few months trying to act like there's drama behind the scenes between the members, so it was hard to tell whether you were just being light-hearted or whether you were trying to air some of that stuff in a subtler way. i don't answer messages that i interpret as being definitely malicious though, which is why i was talking to you at all!! but sometimes i do get anons who will start off saying these kinda plausibly deniable things and then it devolves into something meaner once they've gotten me to start a conversation, so i have a bit of caution around anything potentially negative, that's all. 💕